Weekend with a friend

hello, how was your day?

Today, I met with my friend who came back from taiwan, the same girl who I visited when I went to taipei earlier this year. I spent the whole day with her after church, she also came to my home to have dinner.

She stayed till almost 11pm to chat with me. She always has a lot of deep / complicated questions and thoughts that she wants to share with me. I feel that she probably doesn’t have a lot of friends who would discuss things like that with her, so even though I was quite tired and wanted to rest before starting another week of busy work on a sunday night, I decided to chat with her till late at my home.

I feel quite fulfilled that I can be her listener, but it’s actually also quite tiring and draining for me, because I have to process a lot before responding to her. I am very aware that my mental state is still not very good recently, so I should set some boundaries for myself to rest, and I asked her to go home and rest too at around 10:30.

But even though I am very tired now, I feel like I had a fulfilling day, including going to church earlier this morning. But I guess I will share about it the other day.

Miss you dear Andy, I especially miss sharing with you in person about my day with a lot of details.

Bought this psyduck tshirt today at uniqlo